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Finding it hard to keep the spark in our long-distance relationship. Any tips?

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Question - (1 February 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 1 February 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

My girlfriend and I maintain a long distance relationship and our rocky relationship has almost smoothened out over the past year. But without the drama, some of the flair is gone and my girlfriend tells me I don’t make her feel loved any more.

We vowed to see each other more often, but how can I make my special lady feel loved from such a long way?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2006):

You need to ask her the same questions...

i can believe the pressure ur under, comunication is the key.

you must bring urself to telling her that u want to make her feel special, u want to make her feel loved because u do think she is special and she is loved from the bottom of ur heart.

maybe u shud one day, grab a train ticket and go to see her, thats a suprise big enough to satisfy both of u.

tell her wat ur going thru, maybe she'll understand and not expect so much from u.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2006):

From the question poster:

Thankyou very much for your suggestions. I find that being romantic with constant spoiling and with webcam contact each night - it's hard to find something new.

I guess what I'm trying to say is, I'm running out of ideas?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2006):

I have also been maintaining a long distance relationship for the last few months. You know her best and what she would respond to. If she and you are the romantic types, call her at a time you usually wouldnt just to say 'I love you' etc. If you are not the romantic type perhaps send her something she said she wanted a while back and never got. Something like that. It's not the big things that show you care...its all the little things...especially during a long distance relationship. Good luck.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2006):

Long-distance relationships are so difficult...One piece of advice If you really love your girl you will really take the risk and willing to take all the sacrifices..Do something good and let her feel that you love her even though you're not with her at present.You can call her anytime to check if she's ok..have sometime using webcam just to see her and send some gifts that will surprise her.Communication is very important in this kind of relationship.."hope it works...

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