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writes: hellow there! i'm a 17 year old girl who's in a confused and fustrating situation. i met a great girl who i became friends for a while and then i started to really like her but she allready has a boyfriend and i am straight and never had fallen in love with a girl before and i have only just splitted up with a guy i use to be with and now i just can't get over her at all! and i tryed putting my mind off it by thinking about other stuff but she is still there in my head and now she's invading my dreams!
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, Chasity ONeal, writes (14 February 2005): Hello Girl Confused, It's the curiosity of the unknown that you're attracted to, not that you are gay. You may feel a real friendship connection with her, and long to have that type of connection with a male. You may see traits in her that you wished you possess; you idolize her. As far as letting her know your feelings, or what you think your feelings are? I wouldn't! It may only complicate things and you may lose a great friend in the process. You can, however, let her know what a great friend she is to you in a heartfelt way (making sure not to say too much, if you know what I mean), and see what feelings she shares for you back and take it from there. Then again you and her could always devise a plan to act like lesbians in front of her man and whoever your date maybe. A guy's biggest fantasy is,............,well you know! :)
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