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Feelings or friends?

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Question - (24 May 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 26 May 2012)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

There is this guy, lets call him IMR. There is his best friend, i'll call him CMT, then there JRA, and then there is me.

Ive known this guy since 8th grade, and I'm pretty sure i have liked him since then but i had also liked his bestfriend since then too .

Well the thing is freshman year me and IMR started talking, he told my sisters bf he thought i was cute and he would always walk with me in the hallway and be perverted toward me. So I went to a football game and he asked me to do things with him and i reay didnt want to...and since then we didnt talk.

Sophomore year comes around and we start talking again. This time he took me out on dates. We went to a party first, then to the movies. Later he asked me too meet him somewhere and he wanted me to do something i wasnt willing to do. So i got upset and all of a sudden theres a rumor going around saying him and a female did things and alot of people came up asking me., so me and my friend went to the movies and she invited her bf and just so happens hes bestfriends with IMR, so i get upset. Later i found out he had a gf and he told my frieds he never cared about me and he lied and we stopped talking afterward.

earliler i mentioned that i also liked his bestfriend CMT. well me and CMT started talking junior year and he was telling me that IMR wasnt the relationship type and he likes "hoes" that why we ddnt work out, cause i am a good girl. And then IMR came up to me and asked me about CMT and got upset... eventually me and CMT stopped talking i started hanging out with my friends more ofen. Well i hung out with IMR and his friend JRA.JRA kept mentioning my relationship with CMT,and IMR kept trying to change the subject and speak over JRA. JRA kept trying to get close to me and IMR wouldnt let him. Then JRA wanted to spend time with me alone and IMR kept interrupting us when we were talking.

Days past and IMR calls and asking for a ride and i pick him up and he started telling me that JRA just wants stuff and he doesnt care about me, Hes a user and he will persuade you to do things..

So at school we all went out for field day and he was asking around for me because he wanted to hang out. And they started questioning him about me asking if he has feelings for me and he never answered.

His beahvior is kind of wierd he gets mad whens omeoe hits on me, hes all of sudden always wanting to hang out, and although they are best friends he tells me things like they will never treat you right...

Is it just that he is trying to protect me from making the wrong decision with guys as a friend or does he like me and have feelings for me I'm kind of confused?

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