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Feelings for one guy, sex urges for another... Help!

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Question - (19 October 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 October 2008)
A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have a friend who is a long distance one. We are friends, we are not dating or anything, just keep in touch by emails and do enjoy each others friendship and care very much for each other. I admit I have strong feelings for him and do want him sexually.

Recently, I met this other guy who is INCREDIBLY HOT!!!!!! His energy is so powerful he makes me want to ***. (like that literally) I know he's pure sex, nothing more. I don't see myself having a life with him like I picture it with my Long distance love. It's just raw animal sex and he looks at me like wanting sex also.

But, why do I feel guilty, if we are not dating. Well, the two of them are in the air force but I don't know what to do. I want to sleep with one but loves the other so much that I don't know if it's cheating although we are not dating, just feelings!

What do I do?

The worst part is that this guy is close to me tempting me. What do I do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2008):

wait for your freind, it will be worth it, my girl waited for me for 4 years, she did however date other guys and i was fine with it, just aslong as i knew she would not fall in love with 1 of them, she told me that she needed that physical attraction and there was no emotions involved with those guys, but when we did meet up, we knew that we were eachothers soulmate. we are now married after 20 years. TRUST ME IT WILL BE WORTH IT!

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