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Feeling lost now I am single.....

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Question - (12 August 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 August 2011)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

If anyone has anything that night help me please read :)

Im finding it really hard being single/on my own.

For the past 7 years I have been in 3 long relationships with only small amounts of time in between. I have just recently broken up with my BF of 1 year and to be honest I feel a little lost.

My ex-boyfriend and I still keep in contact ( we live a couple of streets apart)at the moment I am finding him really hard to understand, we can be getting along really good one day and hes asked me round for dinner and we get along really good, then other days he can be acting like hes got a man-period and is really short. I talked to a good friend about the situation and have desided just to have no contact for a couple of weeks. I would just love to know what is going on in his head. I would love to be able to put him out of my head and move on but then there are things like my cat is at his home because my flat mate has become elergic to her. Its just quite hard!! Why dont guys just say how they are feeling or what is going on so it saves all this drama lol.

If anyone has any advice or something to say, please feel free :)

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (12 August 2011):

LazyGuy agony aunt7/3 is 2 years allowing for some time in between. 2 years is NOT a long relationship.

If you are between 22 and 25 then basically you been running from relationship to relationship since you became an "adult".

Have you EVER actually lived on your own? Just how scary would the thought be to actually live alone in a house more then a week?

You find it hard to be alone even when you have a flat mate... doesn't that ring an alarm bell?

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A female reader, sammy1986 United Kingdom +, writes (12 August 2011):

i would stay single for a few months get your head together without jumping into relationship after relationship when you are happy with yourself then you can be happy with a man or if you still like the man you have just broke up with try talking to him maybe you can both figure out what went wrong good luck

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