A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello!I am going out with someone for about 6 months, but we have known each other for about 2 years.Things are not going to so well at the moment...I've become very paranoid and having a go at him a lot. I think it's because I have been cheated on in previous relationships. I feel confident in myself and how I look, and we have a good sexual relationship, as well as everything else, we do things for each other, and just get on like best mates, have the same interests etc.But recently I have become so paranoid about silly things. for example, my close friend is quite flirty, it's just her personality, and she's in the same friendhsip group as me and my boyfriend, and everytime my boyfriend talks to her I get SO paranoid and have a massive go at him, but then I feel silly, because nothings actually happened and they were just having a chat or something when we were out.I feel like it's getting a bit out of hand :/ and I feel embarrased!How do I get over these little things, and not blow up and have a go at him because of my insecurity?I feel like it's going to ruin our relationship :(Should I try counselling?Or just talk to him about it (which I have a bit, and he understands, he just sometimes says I have no reason to be having a go for some of the stuff I do).thanks in advance!! xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2012): probably he is right.nothing is wrong in your relationship and you shouldn't be worried.however i was also cheated and very generous and innocent in the past.
be careful and always watch your back.
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