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writes: I'm kinda confused right now... The problem is that I'm feeling bit sad for a small thing. My bf never writes cute stuff for me on msn or any other account like other bf's does. It hurts me cause it makes me feel unloved. Maybe I'm overreacting and being a fool, sometimes I wish that he can show the world that he loves me, so I feel special. Maybe I'm dreaming too much and having soap opera expectations. My mum says it's really stupid and I sound childish; it might be, but I can't help to feel that way. I'm also really paranoid in these days... I don't know what to do. Do you think I'm being stupid by worrying and getting sad by the internet thing?
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (27 February 2006):
 You need to realise that some blokes just like some girls just dont do the soppy cute thing, I was with a bloke who loved me but just never said it, he never wrote valentine cards or soppy verses, he never did this stuff but he did show his love in many ways, just at the time i was too young and stupid to realise it, so i thought he did`nt love me and went looking for a guy who did all the cute stuff.
I found him and he is now known as "mr false" you see he did all the cute stuff but did it for me and lots of others, he was seeing lots of girls and later i found he was also married, he was a charmer who just had the patter, he wrote poetry for me, sent me funny messages etc etc, but non of it meant anything.
Dont worry about him not sending you slushy messages as long as he is a good bloke and you like him and feel he likes you then all is well, it does not stop you writing the slushy stuff to him.
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