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writes: Theres a boy who i have been close friends with for two years. eventually i told him i liked him as more than a friend but he said he didnt like me like that.I had accepted we would just be friends.A couple of months later i ended up staying at his house after a night out because i could not get home.I said we shud lie head to toe but he initiated kissing me and we ended up having sex in his bed.we were both drunk.After it happend i felt hurt, stupid and confused. Help me!
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (3 December 2006):
 Why is drink used as an excuse to do what people sometimes really want to do?
Do not beat yourself about it so much.
It was mistake, no reason for you to feel stupid. Everyone makes mistakes, that is what makes us human not robots.
I am sure that you friend remembers even though he does not admit it.
He probably feels as embarrassed as you, he got carried away but he is not into you, you have accepted that so no problem there.
Now it is time to have a chat about it, to save your friendship and move on.
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reader, crazykid +, writes (3 December 2006):
crazykid is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni feel bad that i had sex with a boy who isnt attracted to me.the next day he freaked out asking me if i was on the pill. but a week later he said he didnt remember anything that happend that night.Should i stay friends with him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2006): When people are drunk they feel invinsable and all they want is a hug and a kiss maybe a bit more, talk to him and see what he says.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2006): What do you need help with though? Help that you feel hurt, stupid and confused? Well, it was something he initiated and that you accepted. If it was a mistake, then that's that. Reflect, accept it, and move on. What about him? If it bothers you that much, then tell him how you feel. Otherwise, I don't really see it as such a big deal.
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