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writes: there is this guy that i see around campus almost everyday. we have talked before and we know eachothers name. but we have never really talked or got to know eachother. i know we are both interested in eachother. he watches me pass by him in the halls. not like a nutter though. and i catch him smiling at me. its kinda hard for me not to smile back, we have made eye contact, and there are fireworks, but i dont know what to say to him we both are in different groups. i want it to be more than just hello and goodbye, i feel like maybe there is something meant to happen. but i dont know what to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2006): What have you got to lose? Go up to him, introduce yourself and tell him you'd like to get to know him. Suggest a coffee together, at a crowded campus coffee shop. Just be yourself but make sure to smile and be classy, calm and mature. Watch for his reaction. If he says 'Yes'..take it from there. Before you approach him, 'accept' in your mind first, that he might say "No." Figure out how you'll respond to that-it helps to have a plan in place. If he says no, then smile nicely, say "nice to have met you" and with ease and grace, walk away. Don't be embarrassed-be proud that you had the confidence and self assurance to even try this. Fear of rejection rules the lives of far too many people. People are too fearful to take risks. And many spend a long time regreting it. But remember if he says No...there's always another opportunity around the corner! And don't take it personally..be sensible about this. He may already have a gf or a love interest. Just try it and see what happens. Good luck.
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