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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Okay i dont know what to do! I have a great boyfriend! But my family wont accept him because of race, i have just been made redundant now i dont know wether to move closer to where my bf lives wich is 2hrs away and get a job there, but my family wont talk to me again! But i crnt live without him because he means alot and me and my family arnt that close i dont know what to do :S x Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, SirenaBlusera +, writes (10 December 2010):
You don`t get many chances in life to be happy, especially when it comes to relationships. I think you need to put yourfamily`s prejudices aside and do some soul-seraching. Do you really love this guy? Does he love you? If the answer is YES, then stand by him... I have been in unrequited love so many times and it has opened up my eyes to one thing... when you get a chance at happiness, take it.
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reader, Abella +, writes (9 December 2010):
If you are really certain he will love, cherish, support and care for you, once you join him?
If yes then give it a try.
Racism has no place in todays world
youy are old enough to leave home. Do it in a calm respectful way. Quietly pack your things up. No drama. No pleading. Even if they threaten hell. You may need to talk it over. Do you have a wise calm
person in the family you can talk to about this
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2010): Follow your heart. Maybe your parents will realise that actually it's the person, not the race, that matters. If they don't - you can't live your life by their predjudices.
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