A
female
age
30-35,
*brea//babbby.
writes:Hello, so i just got broken up with him, like two weeks ago.im doing good, im getting over him. [guy B]but im falling fast for a friend of his.. [guy A]i used to date this kid but we both lost interest and remained friends..well then i liked B. but since we broke up A has been there for me and all the feelings are coming back from before.well, i feel like a whore a little bit but im not really completely over B.but i dont want people to think that im doing this to get back at B.i really like A but i dont know what to do because i dont want people to think im something im not..what do i doo?!?!ive been liking A and we might get back together but i dont know what im doing. help me please! thanks in advance.
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female
reader, PsyCookie +, writes (8 September 2008):
 Saying you're a teenager is no excuse for caring what other people think. I was (still am by a technicality) a teenager too but I sincerely didn't care what others think of me (usually when I hear this it's not true). Not caring what others think of you will releave you from SO many things. High school is full of people who will critisize you for the stupidiest things so why even care about that when they barely know you? Will save you years of heartaches.
But I stand to my original message. If you like him a lot then just go for it. Don't care what others think, what do they even know anyways?
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female
reader, *brea//babbby. +, writes (7 September 2008):
*brea//babbby. is verified as being by the original poster of the question oh, i really like him.
but im a teenage girl, ha. of course i care what other people think.
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female
reader, PsyCookie +, writes (7 September 2008):
Don't go with A unless you know you really like him. Why have a relationship for the heck of it? That's one of the reasons why some people girls are w***res (the other one is because they put out). A girl who changes relationships like underwear is not seen good upon.
So if you're not sure you like him, don't go for him. Stay away from relationships for a while. Make time for yourself and friends.
But if you really like him, go for him. At this point why care what others think? Showing everyone you're truely happy and actually staying a considerate time with him (longer than 2 months) will show most people you're not doing to spite your ex.
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