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36-40,
*eforu
writes:so....i cant give up!......ive fallin for my best friend who is also a lesbian everytime i see her i cant describe it! its different then the last girl i liked, i just dunno theres feelings that scare me i cant describe them, like i want to protect her and keep her close to me and the urge to reach out and hold her is stronger than ever before. One problem though....she was unaware that i liked her and when she found out she told me that was sweet and that i am an amazing person but that she wouldnt want anything to mess up our friendship. i honestly believe nothing would get in the way even if we did break up....i want her so bad and i dont know why this is very very rare for me she is nothing like the girls i have liked before and i cant help but fall hard for her....what do i do either to get over her or to get her....when we go out and we all have fun and are drinking she ends up all over me and doesnt remember it the next day....i cant resist much longer and im scared shell be mad if i make a move HELP PLEASE.....confused and hurtingmeforu
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2007): if i were you i would ask her to try it and if it doesnt work then move on
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reader, dapone 1  +, writes (21 October 2007):
 Dear meforu
you said you told her how you feel, and she replied she would not want any thing to mess up your friendship,i an sorry but she see you only has her best friend which is a good, to have some one who feels that way toward you, because she trust you in this role,if you push her too much it is possible that your friendship will come to an end, then and were will you be.
i think she is trying to save you heart ache, she may now if you go in to a relationship with her then she will end it after a short while then you will both loose out, you will loose a best friend and a lover,and she will loose a best friend.
MY advise for what it is worth, is to stay her best friend, and in two or three month gently bring the subject up again, if she gives you the same reply then you should you should give up on the idea, and find some who feels the same way about you,your choices are simple stay her best friend or loose her all together, i now what i would rather do.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (19 October 2007):
Wait a month or so and see how you feel. If you're still hot for her, tell her so.
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