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writes:I have wrote on here about advice concerning my ex well now I still need advice he pushed me last weekend and now knows I am in the process of hoping meeting someone else got mad now he has a few things here still and I told him he could have the television in the living room.He cannot let go and I know this another thing I will say yes I have been letting him in but the I am going to get my things is getting old and I am wonting to put his things outside because he has no reason really to come in I ended our friendship on March 9th I got to stop I know answering the door earlier this week his brother who lives downstairs came up and told me this and that then call the landlord talk to her before I maybe get evicted brother said he told them I don't know what and spoke like he lives with his older daughter he will be having somewhere.Well it upset me I did call my landlord she said to give him time let him come in but if he should get crazy no choice call the police I had to call her yesterday my washing machine broke down she asked had he got his things I said no she said okay well he came yesterday letting me know once again he would be here today to get his things well he called and I made a mistake and he tells me why I keep threaten him about his things do not put his things out there because then the neighbors will know our business he even said the police would say that was threatning him.Now he does not know I have spoke to my landlord and I do not wont him to I said give him the rest of the month then I said after today put out bring in at night but I do not wont him to go off and maybe break a window or he soon to get to cussing up a storm the man has a nasty mouth when he does I have been told he is talking about me also. I am not that good with doing something like putting his things out after he told me not to because I am not trying to get put out of here I have an 19 year old handicapped daughter my sister lives downstairs next door to his brothers girlfriend what he does not know his own brother put in a complaint to get him barred from here
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reader, oldbag  +, writes (7 April 2012):
 Hithe last thing you need is to be trying to meet someone else . I dont know how the ex found out but it will make him want to catch you out with a new man AND antagonise the situationI think getting a letter sent with official dates for collecting stuff AND getting him off the lease is a good plan . Till he has his things you shouldnt date.At least he is knocking on the door AND not just barging in so you dont have to let him into your place once he has picked his stuff up.you can get a restraining order after that.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (7 April 2012):
 Ask to have your locks changed as #1. If he is on the lease, take him off.
#2 Send him a CERTIFIED letter and give him X amount of days to contact you for a pick up date, if stuff is not picked up put it outside.
Block his number, don't answer the door. And honestly, don't start dating anyone til this drama have died down.
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