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Ex teacher is behaving inappropriately! What to do?

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Question - (28 November 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 November 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *averick494 writes:

To cut to the chase: my now ex-teacher is taking his newfound 'freedom' a little too seriously. Last week me and a classmate of mine got an 'innocent' e-mail from him asking how our finals went.

I was late in answering because I was busy with an assignment. She answered immediately. She lives in the same city as he does and they both like the same music and playing guitar. A few days ago she told me she was going to meet him for drinks. She specifically said that that was all there was going to be. I told her to watch out for herself.

Saturday she called me up and told me they had 'slept' together. the '' because she passed out after a few drinks (according to her she "reacted strange" to her drink).

She still gets messages from him and she showed me them and they're all (save the first one) about sex. He spills the beans on other teachers at our school who are or have been involved with students. She doesn't know what to do.

I still haven't replied to his e-mail. My manners tell me I should. My gut tells be I shouldn't, to save myself the hassle of getting rid of him. What should I do?

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A female reader, Mjfbla United States +, writes (29 November 2010):

Mjfbla agony auntIt sounds like he may have slipped her something, but you can't prove it. you might want to go for drinks and just have someone there watching your back that he wouldnt recognize. Make a point to go to the bathroom or something and have your friend watch him. If he does something then you can prove it and he wont have a chance to hurt anyone else.

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