Ex girlfriend treats me like an atm, but wont let me see my daughter!

A male age 41-50, *arkharry66 writes:

I got together with my last girlfriend when she was in need of help and in dire straits. I helped her out of several bad problems she had created for herself it was her that came to me and told me she loved me. I fed and clothed her children for 12 months and treated them like my own. I never asked for anything in return we emigrated to another country this time last year a but a few months in the emigration I had to return. Not out of choice for other reasons which my girl friend agreed was important at the time. When I left she was three months pregnant. Since I have been away I sent everything I earned to her to make sure she had money to survive paid all of her rent last year and for all the furniture. One month in while I am away she gets abusive she had been pushing me away anyway but now it gets aggressive. I missed the birth and have never met my new daughter. My girlfriend wants to treat me like an atm. Kept contacting me with reagard to money even though she has informed me that she doesnt want my help she keeps contacting me with regard to money. Since I have been away she has also tried to get back with her ex, discredited me on face book etc. It has now got to the point where I have told her not to contact me. Where do I go from here she hates me but I want to see my daughter

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