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anonymous
writes:Hello! Am a 22 yr old girl, So recently I reconnect via online with one of my ex bf from highs school we went out for a couple of months my 1st yr of high school, purely innocent dating then somehow we decided to remain friends…and we did all through High school. He graduated then I graduated we lost contact and about 2 weeks ago he texted me, I was astonished. Well the case is that we been texting and he’s so sweet, light flirting, so via text he tells me to text him whenever I want 24/7 if I want, he asked we should have coffee to catch up. I told him yes we should…so I don’t know what to expect…is he taking this as a romantic date or as date btw friends to catch up. He asked me where do you want to go? As I relied dinner or coffee sound find…he then replied where ever you want to go, your wished is my command? I feel happy and it would be nice to see where it goes…but I don’t want to read too much into it!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2010): Hi.
Something similar happened to me..with my 1st love from 20+ yrs ago. She tracked me down...but there are complications..ahheeemmm...lol
Anyway we met, had a great time. The chemistry is still there!! She has phoned me several times..but its difficult. She wants to meet again soon...will see how that goes.
My advice would be to be open minded and see how it goes...unlike crazy-girl's advice...if you get on well & like him DONT play games..let him know and see where it goes.
Why do some women like to play games?..why dont they invest that time/energy in building the relationship instead?
Good luck and let us know how you get on
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2010): I think when you meet him you will get a better idea of where things are going. It can be difficult to tell via text. But in person, it can be easier to read the signs and see if it is a friendship...or something more. I can imagine you must be feeling quite excited by what is happening, and I hope things work out well. Maybe just try and stay calm about it for now though, and try not to look too deeply into it until you meet him again. I hope it goes well!
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