A
male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hello,The girl has been married previously in a 5 year relationship that ended 2 years ago. I have been dating her for 5 months now but every time we get intimate it feels "weird and not right" on her end. Which I cannot explain as she cares for me. She is the type that keeps her walls up and it seems as though it is taking forever for them to drop but they were slowly coming down. Just last month I went on a 3 week vacation and when I got back those walls were fully back up. We have talked about it and she says she will try to bring them down but it is taking a long time. She said it's weird but I care for her much more than she cares for me and she does not know why. I need help on what I can do and what actions I can take... HELP!!! She is a great gal and I can see us together but I am totally in limbo as I am not sure where it is going. Any advise or suggestions? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, flower girl  +, writes (7 June 2007):
 It's very easy to have these walls when you have been in a marriage and it has ended, and sex with another person does feel weird as you have been with someone else for a long time. You have not said she is being off with you and if she is not calming down on the amount of time you spend together then i would suggest if you really care for her support her be there for her and just be patient and i'm sure it will be worth the wait.
Take care.xx.
A
male
reader, brokenheartz  +, writes (7 June 2007):
 As soon as a girl says you care for her more than she cares for you..it's done. Feelings are almost impossible to reignite. Sorry pal. Don't worry, there's plenty of other girls out there. Find one that cares for you as much as you care for her.
...............................
|
