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writes:I,ve been friends with my best friend since we were 3 years old. She recently return from a few weeks away from australia and everythings different... Last week I stayed a few nights in her house and i was a very clumsy with few things Lewing the lights on in a room, left a towel in the wrong place and I really didnt mean it but I raised my voice as she kept asking me to guess something which i found a little annoying . I apologized immediatley. And she was grand about it actually laughed. But the next day she hardly spoke to me and its been almost a week since we spoke. I dunno what to do she won't reply to my texts What will I do?
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reader, Abella  +, writes (15 August 2011):
 Sorry to hear that there is some sort of 'distancing' happening between you and your friend.
Something caused it - possibly the raised voices?
Call her, invite her out for coffee or lunch, during the time you are together tell her how important her friendship is to you. Tell her you care. That you value her friendship.
And ask her if a problem exists and ask her what you can do to make things better
Good luck with this. Our long term friends are important.
But like a garden, our long term friends only thrive if we do keep up the regular caring and nurturing time to keep things blooming and the friendship heathly for each other.
Something is bothering your friend. You
Will not find out until you ask. Then you can address the problem.
Best Wishes
Abella
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reader, nyanna +, writes (15 August 2011):
 well instead of texting her try calling her or maybe even talk to her in person and just calmly ask her "hey whats going on? i noticed you seem kinda distant lately and i was wondering if it was something i did or said and i just wanted to let you know that if it was something i did or said that i'm really sorry and i never wanted it to have a negitive effect on our friendship, i value our friendship too much to lose it because of something i did or said. If we can just talk about it i'm sure we can work through this and become closer than we were before."
I hope this helps you out those situations suck.
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