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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi I've been together with my boyfriend for nearly 4 years now everything was great up until recently everything I do lately seems to annoy him it's like I can't do anything right like for instance this morning he wanted to borrow some money I told him it's in the top drawer he opened it and started moaning about how full it was for god sake it's a drawer everything I say or do he has a answer for its really starting to annoy me I wouldn't mind so much if he was tidy but he's not and he also admits to being lazy what do I do thank you
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (5 July 2016):
 Maybe you are both spending to much time together, if that is the case organize things so that you have time apart. Also it could be that he is unhappy about something, so talk to him and see what is going on, maybe he is suffering from depression or he is worried about something, you just both need to communicate. If he has an attitude with you then talk to each other and try and come up with a conclusion.
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reader, DarrellG +, writes (5 July 2016):
 I would need much more than this because there is obviously some deep seated issue here. Do you spend alot of time together? Are you spending too much time together? May you both not be getting the space you need? Has he just got fed up with the relationship? There are other, decidedly less pleasent possibilities as well or there is the possibility his behaviour has nothing to do with you and the relationship, maybe he has something going on at work, for example? You need to sit down and thrash this out because this is just going to go on and on and just annoy and frustrate you until eventually all you will do is spend all your time arguing which wont be good for either of you. You need to find out what is a) really grating his his cheese and b) why he is taking it out on you. He will say he isnt but he clearly is and its something that you need to address and the only way to do this is opening the channels of communication and finding out the lie of the land.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (5 July 2016):
 "everything I do lately seems to annoy him", yet you say "he has a answer for its really starting to annoy me".
I suggest communicating.
That said, how is he lazy? Does he have a job? Any ambitions? If not, do you want to be with a guy like that?
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