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writes:Hey you guys well me writing this question is proof that i'm still here!!! LOL!!! well i know everything happens for a reason. well the day i met the str8 guy was like destiny. well a new kid just transferred to my class and he took my seat, me being nice let him have it, but i took the str8 guys chair. so he let me have his seat, then later on we met on my way to class and we bumped shoulders. i dropped my books and he dropped his and we both bent down to pick them up than we said "oh i'm sorry it was my fault" at the same time. so we leaughed and we actually properly introduced ourselves so we got to talking instead of going to class. LMAO!!!!! i normally lived by "everything happens for a reason" so i really believed it. but i just needed to know if meeting him is all that was supposed to happen. i need more advice, but this whole thing wouldn't have happened if nothing was going to happen between us right? so i just wanted to know what everyone else thought about the situation. Reply to this Question
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (19 October 2008):
 don't think more of it than it already is. I bump into people and lock eyes with people all the time. It doesn't mean that it's destiny that we are suppose to live happily every after. although I do believe in fate/destiny mumbo jumbo...you also have to have a dose of reality.
And the reality is...you are looking for someone to crush on, and when it happend you thought it was a sign. Really,..he is just a cute boy that you might want to be with. it doesn't mean that he's destine to be yours forever. Stop reading romance books and watching Disney movies. That doesn't happen in real life. You create your own destiny.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2008): Oh wow, you are one of those magical thinking types. Things don't happen for a reason, that is just what people say when they want to tell themselves that it is alright that we humans have little control over others.
The guy is straight, he bumped into you and apologized for causing you to drop your books.....don't be stupid, don't read into this as fate. Reality does not exist it is only perception, you have to ask the other person how they feel or what they think as you have a filter that you see the world through and so do they.
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reader, lotmoney13 +, writes (19 October 2008):
lotmoney13 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionincase any of you were wondering why i told you the story, i just wanted to help you see what i saw, using what happend to influence advice and beliefs. so anyway please i need to know what people think about the situation.
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