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writes: Ok, well I am 18 years old. My boyfriend says that he spends every weekend with me and needs time to spend with the guys. I had no problem until he told that that with every weekend he spends with me he has to make one up for the guys. Is he getting tired of seeing me, am I too boring or does he want space? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2005): Hmmmm.. seems his friends are a big part of his life..most blokes see their mates as a big part of their life but these is a limit and owing his mates time because he spent some time with you is just wrong..having a happy medium is good but seriously he cant really think that what time spent with you he then needs to equal the same time out with his mates..come on.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (17 October 2005):
 Dump him and see if you can find a guy who actually wants to spend time with you. This guy is a freak.
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reader, clearsign +, writes (17 October 2005):
You and your boyfriend need to find a balance. He might have some concerns as to how he appears to his mates and so he wants to make sure that they have equal time. I don't think that he "owes make up time" to anyone, but it seems that he's trying to be fair. I would suggest that you try exploring some new interest that can fill you time when he's not with you. If you keep yourself fresh andn interesting, then you certainly won't be boring, and he'll want to spend time with you. And if his friends still come out on top, then it's time to find someone who can truly appreciate all that you have to offer.
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