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writes:FORBIDDEN LOVE!Ok. Away back last year I liked this boy. He is only 3 months older than me but is in the year above me at school. As soon as I started talking to him I fell in love. He was the first guy I really felt this way about. He is just amazing, has a great smile and has a brilliant personality. To top it off he is absolutely gorgeous. Even though we hadn't spoke in person we were both head over heels for each other. However, his best pal doesn't like me and basically told him not to talk to me and he used to come on his msn account and be horrible to me. So me and this guy argued about all this and we stopped talkng as much. He went to his christmas dance shortly after this and met a girl who he kissed that night and eventually started going with her. Since then we stopped talking for like 5 month. But one night he text me and from there on I remembered how wonderful he was and how much i liked him. Ever since its been hard for me because he has this gf. But theres rumours hes just using her for sex and he doesn't like her. He even told one of my best pals this. During all this time me and him text ALOT. He is always complimentin me or asking questions you just wouldn't ask if you had a gf. Like hes asking if I'd ever kiss him and stuff. I really believe I love him, I can't stop thinking about him. Every time he is near I just want to grab him, hug him and kiss him. I'd honesty do anything for him. What should I do? Opinions and advice please, thank-you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2008): Go for it with him but just be prepared with the thought at the back of your mind that he could be using you.
Be prepared to get hurt.
But you will regret it if you don't go for it, trust me :)
Only go as far as you are prepared to with him also just because you like him don't be afraid that if you dont go the whole way with him that he won't be interested in you. Because if that is the case then he isnt worth it okay!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBecause I really like him? I honestly believe we're meant to be (L)
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reader, Teacake  +, writes (14 November 2008):
 Why would you want to be with a boy who you already know is a user? Chances are this guy is going to break your heart. Young boys don't stick around too long anyhow.
Best to be friends and play very very hard to get. Boys / men always want the girls they can't have. If you feel he is seducing you, then that is a clue he will be using you to. Any boy who wants a relationship will ask you out and treat you like you are the best thing that ever happened to him.
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