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writes: Hi, I'm not sure if im asking the right person. My problem is quite basic: like many women hate their partners looking at porn, they feel rejected, unwanted and usless, well this is how I'm feeling, except my problem is now affecting our sex life. My partner started saying that it doesn't make him look any different at me and he'd done it years before we met, which I did accept, but now we have sex probably once every couple of weeks. He spends every spare second trailing through and getting his kicks out of it and then there becomes no need for us to be close. Making love is def out of the question and even simple affection is a chore for him.I feel totaly betrayed by him and porn. If it was glamour models and stunning girls he was looking at then it would maybe be diffrent but its all amatuer real life stuff. People that are no better than me. He likes taking photos as well, in which he'd taken pics of his ex g/f, naked pics of the two of them which he will not give up.We have a baby too, so this complicates matters. I have tried talking to him and he knows how much this hurts me but he won't stop. What do i do? please helpjemma
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2005): It sounds like this guys developed a real problem ...and the porn is only the tip of the iceberg....It is the emotional void towards you that bothers me..(although you do not say how he relates to the child)..considering the presence of a child....I would strongly suggest that you see a counselor together....should he be unreceptive to that, he should be taking his TV friends somewhere else.
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