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Even although I've had anal sex before and it didn't hurt, why did it hurt so badly this time?

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Question - (18 April 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 April 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've had anal sex before... quite a few times and all has been fine. Even my very first time didn't hurt at all. However... it's been a few months since and my boyfriend now wants to try it again.. so we try to.. but it hurts so much I'm in agony and it can't happen. Why is this when I've done it before and even my first time didn't hurt?

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A male reader, previasc96 United States +, writes (26 April 2009):

you should lube and loosen up wit a toy or finger, before you start.

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A male reader, Who United States +, writes (21 April 2009):

Who agony auntGoogle "hemorrhoids"

Maybe the problem, maybe not.

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A female reader, kissxmexagainx United States +, writes (19 April 2009):

kissxmexagainx agony auntis he using enough lube? you may have an injury in your rectal walls. what kind of pain is it?

ps- don't have anal anymore until it doesn't hurt at all.

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