A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I think I have somekind of erection problem and it is embarrassing me and somewhat ruinging my sex life. I thought maybe someone might have some good advice because I'm too embarrassed to go to the doctors unless absolutely neccessary. I'm 32, 20lbs overweight but not obese, I just got back to exercising, walk 2-4 miles a day. Not the best diet though I'm working on that. I don't think I have a physical problem because I wake up with a strong morning erection almost everyday. When I masterbate, which I sometimes do too often, again I can hold a strong erection until ejaculation. The problem is physical sex with a woman. I can get hard, but after a time (say 10 minutes) I start to lose hardness. It is especially embarrassing when I'm in the middle of intercourse and I start losing hardness, even more embarrassing if I let oral sex go on too long and I'm too limp to even get to intercoure (or get the condom on for that matter)!!!If it's not a physical problem I'm thinking maybe it's performance anxiety. When I'm with a woman I used to enjoy myself no matter what. But lately (say the last 9 months), I find myself going into sex determined to "rock her world" and in the end I end up disappointed in myself more than anything. (Second are even worse because sometimes it take me almost an hour till I can get hard again).Anyway, if I have to go to a doctor I will but could anyone offer advice on how to maintain an erection? Or is this all in my head? thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2009): sung to the tune of "we will rock you!" by Queen
boom boom clang
boom boom clang
we will we will rock you
we will we will rock you
boom boom clang
whilst being quick you got a soft dick
you are red in the face, humping all over the place
no big disgrace
boom boom clang
we will we will rock you
we will we will rock you
boom boom clang
you have it right its in all your head
when it softens when you are in bed
take your time and enjoy swinging your lead.
boom boom clang
kiss her tight and touch her so light.
Stop trying so hard, take vitamins and rest
you will be at your best.
boom boom clang
you will you will rock her
you will you will rock her
boom boom boom boom clang.
Star.x.
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (8 August 2009):
 sex seems to be an important force in your life. my advice to you is to focus on some other things.This can go either way it could be medical or mental. I would suggest go with out sex for a few weeks you could be going through a phase after two or three weeks if the problem persist go see a doctor something could be wrong.
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