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anonymous
writes: I'm 21 years old and I had never met my cousin until our aunts wedding last summer . When I began the new semester at college I added him to my msn and some nights when I was up studying I would leave my msn running and me and him would talk ( he's 20) This carried on for a few months until we arranged a road trip to canada together. Whilst on our road trip we slept in the same bed ( nothing happened ) and we told each other our deepest secrets and we had an amazing time . But now I'm home I have such strong feelings for him - I cant stop thinking about him and I'm jealous of any girl he mentions. We talk on the phone for hours and are always messaging each other and I don't know what to do as I'm engaged to someone else .... please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2011): I dont think that you should be getting married if you have strong feeling for someone else....Even if you cut contact from your cousin how long will it be before you next obsession comes along....
It seems you do not love your fiance enough to marry him just yet...
Dont marry this man and hurt him just because it has already been planned.....We dont want you back here telling us about your unhappy marriage or worse how you were unfaithful to your husband
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reader, dirtball +, writes (16 March 2011):
It's probably best if you cut out the contact. Is this a first cousin? Think of what the relationship would do to your family. They likely would not understand. It is also illegal in most states.
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