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writes: Hi All,I am currently engaged with an NRI and have broke up with the girl i really love, we have been together for close to 2 years, she has been my best friend,my mom,my sister,my baby all times. She has started seeing other guys now and i have done a terrible thing by letting her go. I got engaged purely to migrate and my situations are such that i can't break off easyly. I can not do with out this girl and i am behaving like a phsycho nowadays, i dont sleep for 20 hours or more.please help i want to get over her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2006): Hi Anon,
I'm sorry you are caught in this situation.
How is your relationship with your fiance? Do you think she can be all that your ex was to you?
The reasons you have mentioned for your engagement are really stupid. Did you really think you can get married to someone for those reasons? What are your plans with this girl?
About your ex, I think you should just let her go and try to move on with your life. She has done nothing wrong to deserve this from you. You made your decision.
I hope this helps. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2006): How does your ex feel about this? Does she still love you? Maybe she is with other guys because she can't be with you.
Why don't you have a talk with her?
I think your engegement and marriage will not last very long if this is how you truly feel.
Think fast and make a decision. You have more than just yourself involved in this.
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reader, littlelostgirl +, writes (2 November 2006):
for a start you need to think about your feelings towards your current girlfriend, she is probably planing weddings and babbies and everything that girls do cause its the whole fairy tale princess dream, if you are not serious tell her, believe me she will be more hurt when she finds out you dragged it out, either call it off now or try to move past it.
its called a break up cause its broken,
there were reasons why you broke up, what were they ?, could you both get back together and work past what happened, would you want to know who she has been with when while she wasnt with you, can you deal with the answers ?. really think can it work out, but remember this hurt your feeling now, do you want to inflict this feeling on your current partner, take some time out and be yourself, you will be fine hun, but dont marry this girl to keep her happy and dont go back to a relationship expecting it to be the same as it was, good luck
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