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writes: I am 29 yrs old. I have been with my girlfriend for seven years - she is also 29. She is a wonderful person - kind considerate, loving, thoughtful, etc We are due to be married in eight weeks. I am struggling with being married because I love to chat women up. I feel trapped for the first time ever. We have always had seperate social lives to a degree, in that I have my football and she has nights out with friends, but I am worried I can't be faithful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2005): Maybe its just pre-wedding jitters! Think carefully if the marriage is what you really want, if you love her thats all that matters. social life can still be the same post wedding. If you are worried about being faithful during your married life - you need to ask yourself if you have found it difficult to be faithful whilst not being married. Don't make the mistake of going thru with it if it isn't what you want - save everybody heart ache and deal with it face on!!! Good luck!
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (22 May 2005):
 Its simple really; don't get married! If you are having doubts then it would be foolish to get married and eventually break this girl's heart.It doesn't seem as if you are ready to committ. You still want to lead the single man's lifestyle.If you don't want to lose your girlfriend, you are going to have to think about changing your ways in terms of chatting other women up. You say you both have independent lifestyles which is good but if you feel the need to chat up other women then you are far from ready to settle.Your girlfriend doesn't deserve this. Is she chatting up other men? How would you feel if she did?Consider all this when you let her down gently that you aren't ready to get married yet.
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