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writes:Effort or Experience?Some friends and I were having this discussion recently and it seemed that answers were about 50/50. Everyone had good reasons so I thought I'd pose the question here. Which would you prefer in a lover, experience or effort? Why?Feel free to interpret as you want, but if you do, please explain your interpretation. Thanks everyone? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2010): A hooker has all kinds of experience and yet it's not exactly what I fantasize about. Gimme effort any day.
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (27 April 2010):
 Effort! Experience is fine if you're mature enough to handle the fact that he's had his woo-woo in a good number of other women and not wonder if they were better, prettier, sexier, had bigger boobs etc. etc. Women are terrbly competitive so effort would be my vote. I think alot of men would feel the same way about their women. In fact, I think men are more insecure about a woman's past than we are.
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reader, BettyBoup  +, writes (27 April 2010):
 In sex life? Effort. They can have experience, but if they don't make an effort to please you, it counts for nothing. They can have experience but not know what they are doing. Also everyone's different so they have to make an effort to learn how to please you. Also a lot of experience can lead to being blase and thinking, I've done it all before, don't need to do it again with my new partner.
Well, this is my experience of an experienced man.
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reader, raiders +, writes (26 April 2010):
 Experience-- sexual, just arousing to be with someone who knows what they are doing and that take charge of the situation.
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