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During the past week or so, my girlfriend becomes dry during sex. Why? Doesn't she find me attractive?

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Question - (3 August 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 3 August 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi, my problem is that during the past week or so, my girlfriend becomes dry during sex. I asked her why this is happening and she said she doesn't know. She says it isn't me.... but if it is then i doubt she would tell me.

Its kind of awkward, I'm really confused, she says it may be because she orgasms too fast, and i take too long and so she doesnt stay wet for long enough?

Should i take comfort in the fact that she gets wet, and just ignore this problem and hope it goes away? Or is it something more sinister?

I.e she doesn't find me attractive anymore? Thanks

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A female reader, bebe girlie Kuwait +, writes (3 August 2008):

Hi

How are you? While Having sex with my husband I sometimes get dry too but that doesnt mean Im not attracted to him...Its just that either im tired from constant intercourse or i orgasim before he does and the leaves me dry...i guess its a common problem between girls.. i always use lubricators... they help me alot with my dryness..

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A female reader, lexilou United Kingdom +, writes (3 August 2008):

lexilou agony auntExcuse my terrible spelling on that answer, i blame the wine!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2008):

Don't take this personally. We ladies go through some phases but that doesn't mean we are not attracted to our man. There are some lubricant that can help her during those dry spell. We woman gets dry fast after orgasm or when the man takes too long, but that's ok. Lubricant to the rescue...

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A female reader, lexilou United Kingdom +, writes (3 August 2008):

lexilou agony auntIt maybe that she is due her period women often get dryer at different times of the month. Sometimes I dont get wet quickly but other times its the opposite problem. DOnt take it personally x

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