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writes:Last weekend I went to my work's Chistmas lunch dinner and clubing night and ended up sleeping with a guy I know from work but not very much, we got off but didn't properly had sex as I didn't feel comfy about not knowing him enough and told him so, that I would like to meet him better, so we went home and now he doesn't talk to me much at work and we did not either mentioned the issue to each other. I am getting used to the situation but felt very stressed on Monday. Any ideas??? I think he should have phoned me or talk to me about it as it would help us feeling ok around each other even if it was just a go and so on I don't feel like taking 1st step as he looked very serious or even upset with me on Monday. I feel awful now though we have not a couple and our friends there are still joking about the fact.any ideas would be really welcomed
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reader, Astrid +, writes (4 January 2008):
Astrid is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hi Again Thanks for your nice advice, I've decided to move on and forget about it I don't feel like thinking it over again and again, and he didn't do anything up to now so I feel it's better to let it go. Anyway what made me feel awful was that the first 2 or 3 days we came across at work , he did not acted friendly or normally towards me, which crossed me quite a lot, he told me being so experieced so I think he shouldn't have taken it so mean that I wanted just to meet heim better before going further, though I understand he maybe felt bad about not having sex that night. Thanks guys oooxxx
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (20 December 2007):
 Richard is right. He was trying to get a little sex from you, but nothing else. Maybe he assumes that was your intention, too. So, no harm done, no need to feel bad about it.
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reader, Richard_EMids  +, writes (20 December 2007):
 Hi - from what you say I think the guys just a bit p****d off that he didn't have sex with you. So, you were right not being comfy having sex with someone you didn't know very well. He is not looking for ongoing relationship, just one night sex. I might be wrong, but that's what it looks like to me. You can't blame him for trying. And he can't blame you for resisting.
You shouldn't feel bad. It's life.
Take care
Richard
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