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writes: Please help me. I was dumped by my boyfriend, who i was basically obsessed with, just before Christmas. It wasnt a healthy relationship as he had all the power, but i thought he was perfect and still do. I went on a two week, amazing holiday with all my friends over new year and thought i was getting better. But now Im back, Im more miserable than ever. I dont know what to do. Have no chance of getting him back sa it was long distance and so I never see him. Please please help. I have never been more wretched and miserable.
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reader, cece23  +, writes (16 January 2007):
 You will be okay....You will meet so many men in thei world.....So just worry about you right now. Knowing that yall are long distance....it may be better to chill with someone that will be around more....so best bet is to let that go. I know for sure, there will be a next guy and you might get obsessed over him as well......try not to give a man so much power girllll.....you are the queen, therefore, you run the kingdom....never obsess over a man only love him for who he is......and don't expect to much out of men....You did good going on vacation wit
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reader, Dagwood  +, writes (15 January 2007):
 Hi Anon, Yup this is a tough time! I know how you feel, all hollow inside and like you'll never be happy again. Don't woryy you'll be fine. Go to this website: http://www.coping.org/ it has great info on how to handle break-ups and also how to have a proper relationship in the future. Hope you get over him soon. Be strong, there are lots of us out here feeling the same thing and we'll all get over it! Take care.
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reader, lovin +, writes (15 January 2007):
hi huni well i have had that before and although it doesnt seem like it now it will get better and easier!!!! just keep yourself busy and never ditch your friends for fellas mates will always be there go out with your mates and have a good time let men find you be single for a while have fun and it obviously wasnt meant to be!! how ever hard it is to except it!!! you have to keep busy and trust me the perfect guy will find you live life have fun gudluk xx
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