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writes:Since i have been going out with my boyfriend i seem to have dreams about him that keep coming true. he had the string to my prom dress cause he was trying to get a tie the same color and i had a dream one night that he lost it , and he called me the next day in the morning and said he couldnt find it it was weird. also some of them arent tecnically dreams they're just like impulses i guess, like this one time i had this random impulse to check the history on his computer which i had never done before in a year and a half of our realationship and when i did check it he was like sex messageing other girls, im still with him cuase we worked things out but i have had many dreams and impulses like this involving my boyfriend and 99% of them have led me to something that happened or it led me to something i didnt want to know but its better that i found out. Lately though, for the past two days ive been having dreams about him texting this chick he used to have a thing with, saying that he misses her and stuff and just last night i had a dream that he made out with one of my best friends (the day before he moved), he recently moved away for work and i was visiting for a week and a half and im home now and im having these kinda of dreams and its scaring me that something is going on that i should know about :( Does anyone know anything about this? Should i believe my dreams and talk to him about it or just let these two one slide and forget i even had them ? HELP :(
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (9 April 2010):
 The problem with precognitive dreams (and psychic hunches) is that unless you have trained to develop your innate instincts to the degree where you can implicity trust your inner senses and just KNOW (like a smack in the head) through your whole core that you are right about something - you simply just don't until you can either have a hunch verified as accurate by another, or until what you have dreamt has actually come to pass.
Unfortunately tho, without having developed intuition to the point it becomes a knowing rather than a wondering or suspecting, people can get themselves worked up over nothing, which of course is a shame.
At this point there could be some foresight in your dream, .. or it could just be a regurg of fears from your subconscious -especially given he has called his trust in to question previously.
I think tho that a sensible approach to paranormal issues is to always look to the physical and tangible first for explanation, and when all else is eliminated, then start looking for a spiritual/psychic possibility.
So my advice is to base your thoughts right now on that which you can know, can look in to, can find out, ... if you can gather evidence of any wrong doing, or he ends up kissing someone else, well then you can look back, know your instincts and precognition was right, and chalk up another incident to learn when to trust yourself or not.
Psychics can practice for multiple years before ever getting this stuff pretty close to down pat, but each incident and verification helps build that trust with ones self that can eventually lead to the level where it becomes knowing.
You should never either take as an absolute, the word of another psychic and especially if it involves prediction. It is too easy for scammers to make things up, tell you what they think you want to hear, misinterpret sensing you thinking about it as it being an event about to happen, etc, etc, .... and in any case, I think it is an unethical practice to make predictions because it has so much potential to mess with peoples free will and learning. Eg: I might tell you yes he is cheating and you go home and boot his butt to the curb, effectively changing the course of your actions, and what if I was wrong and screwed your life/path up on you. Get what I mean/ So it is best imo to develop your own instinct rather than rely on anyone elses.
That all said, you may have a bit of a natural ability for that sort of thing, but as in any other skill or ability humans possess, you would need to actively pursue and regularly use such intuition if you ever did want to be able to 'just know' when things like this are going on.
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reader, r_a_w_r1645  +, writes (8 April 2010):
 i would talk to him about it. it seems like u have a phycic ability which is cool haha and helpful :D
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