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writes:ok so heres the thing. me and my boyfriend broke up last month. we were 2gether for 1yr and 3 months. so like i was really into him. he was acting like a big jerk to me. and i couldn't take it anymore. everyday that went by he wouldn't act like my boyfriend. he didnt hold my hand, kiss me or when we talked on the phone, he will say mean stuff to me. so you know i broke up with him. he didn't even try to stop to me. we are still friends. and we still talk. but lately i been having dreams about him. like of us going back out. and everything would be back to normal. until i wake up.. i really want to tell him my dreams of him and me. but im guessing thats not really a wise choice. so i was just wondering why im having this dreams, and should i tell him???
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reader, iSmil3y  +, writes (20 June 2009):
You're probably just having dreams because you guys just broke up. I wouldn't tell him because just because you're having these dreams, doesn't mean that you want or need to be with him. They're just dreams, not reality. In reality, you said he was a jerk to you, treated you badly, never treated you like his girl, so I honestly think that the dreams are just because you guys just broke up and you can't control your thoughts when you sleep. So, don't tell him.
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