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22-25,
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writes: My boyfriend cheated on me 2 weeks into the relationship, we talked it through and decided to try again. It's been 4 weeks and I found out from his dad (a man that is a family friend) that my boyfriend has told his dad that I'm a huge flirt, a slag and he likes me because I'm easy. I was gutted especially as I'm a virgin and have never had a boyfriend previously and have only ever kissed one boy when I got drunk. At the minute we aren't talking because I confronted him about it and he told me his dad was lying. He's made no effort to talk to me at all and said he'd rather be in a room with hitter than me!! When he cheated I made the first step to trying again and I don't really want to do it again but I love him ?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (16 March 2015):
 "but I love him?"
while the question mark is not what you intended it speaks volumes.
You are quite young although you do not see it or feel it.
What is love to you? WHY DO YOU LOVE HIM... what about him is so perfect that you love.. NOT what you think he can be... so far he's called you names and lied to you... again what about this boy do you love?
You have not been with him long.. what makes you call him your boyfriend?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2015): Oh, by-the-way; don't go kissing guys when you're "drunk."
You shouldn't be getting drunk! Too much alcohol will kill your brain cells, destroy your vital organs, and you'll make bad decisions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2015): YouR boyfriend and his father sound awful! Exactly what do you love so much about your cheating and lying boyfriend!
Why would his father repeat something to you that his son said, that was so terrible? You're a 16 year-old girl, and he should be teaching his son that's a disrespectful way to refer to his girlfriend. He says his dad is lying, I think they are two of kind!
You're very young. Don't start making bad choices, or it will become a life-time habit. You'll be a miserable woman who lets men walk all over her.
My dear, you think you're in-love. It's not love unless the other person you love is returning the same feelings for you. It's called infatuation when your love is one-sided.
Your boyfriend cheated because he a jerk, and a son of a jerk. You are in bad company. You will continue to be hurt by that stupid boy, until you're smart enough to let him go.
He doesn't love you, and he doesn't respect you. Your feelings are being wasted on him. You don't give something as precious as your love to guys who say hurtful things about you. You get strong, you pull yourself together, and you move on. He will not appreciate how precious you really are, until someone better finds you. That's how stupid boys like that are. He's a total knucklehead.
Wipe your tears. It's time to be more grown-up, and make some adult-decisions.
DUMP HIM!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2015): This is going to be hard to hear, but you say you love him but does he love you? I mean he cheated and it only took him two weeks. I think you need to move on before it goes to far. You seem like a smart girl and probably beautiful too. You can do better the right guys out there just keep searching.
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