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writes: Ok... My situation is.. I've been with a couple women in the past couple weeks. I have had opportunities to have sex w/ both of them. The problem is .. While we are kissing n fooling around I become erect.. But after clothes start to shed, I stop becoming erect.. And when Im about to have sex, Its just about limp. And I have a hard time waking him up again. Even if they try n give me a blow job.Usually I would tell myself that the problem is mental. But i dont feel real nervous. Im only 17 n a half years old.. And I want to perform decent.. or atleats perform, ya know? I shouldnt need to take medication or any supplements.. Can someone please helP me??
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reader, camille  +, writes (12 October 2006):
 You don't have to feel nerves for it to be a mental issue. Especially now it's happened more than once with different women. Are you a virgin for example? I'm afraid all I can suggest is that you try really hard not to think about it as being aware of it is possible perpetuating the problem. Also, yes you're young, but try not to worry, it's not necessary to take tablets as you say. Try to refrain from masturbating (and at 17 I would assume you are), maybe knocking that on the head for a while (pun intended!) may help to keep your erection.
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