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writes: does my watching porn affect a man's future sex urge in anyway? and if it does in which way does it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthats perfect of u guyz, so pliz keep helping us with our problems whenever u can. thanx
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007): There is harm in watching porn, if you become obsessed with it, or if it is harming your relationship. I think it can change your sex urge, because in porn they are being so dirty, exciting and raw..in most real life situations it is a lot more mellow, or borning even. So if you are looking at porn thinking that you want that kind of sex & you have sex with your g.f. of 3 years, it is going to be lame...and you may end up straying, to seek more exciting sexual satisfaction like what you've been accustomed to in your porn viewing. Which I am sure is normal. I have been with my man for over a year & I am getting bored with sex, not even wanting it anymore b/c it is boring to me.
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reader, Sandman +, writes (7 September 2007):
Well, porn is mostly about fanatasy. And porn is the vehicle by which many people come to desire to act out many fantasies. Because of this, you begin to desire the thing you see in porn a lot more - and the normal things that used to get you horny doesn't do it anymore. I won't say it will effect his future sex urges. For some men, porn gets them going - and they MAY need it to get them going. For other men, it's just something to watch. If the man quits watching porn, then all those images and fantasies begin to slowly fade away and he SHOULD begin to see the normal sexual imagery as a turn on rather than watching women/men act out fantasies that most people couldn't do anyway!Hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007): It changes it sure, I don't think it makes you any more or less horny, but I would say if you see something in porn you like you may start wanting that in real life during sex and whatnot.theres no harm in watching porn man, every single guy I've ever met watches porn.
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