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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hi, I recently had a pregnancy scare and went for a test at brook (in the afternoon) had a test done and was told it was a negative. Although im young and my life is not ready, part of me so much wanted a child. But I have alot of stress in my life at the moment and it would be unfair on a child. Even though i knew this finding out it was supposable negative i was very stressed, at the same time i was going through alot of emotional abuse at home, stressing me even more.The next day in my underwear wasn't what seemed like signs of a period but just pinkish fluid. This concerned me. I was then dotting blood shortly afterwards. Alongside what I was thinking was period pain I had an exremly heavy period. My periods are normally fine, I have no pain and they are like clockwork. I am happy with them, but this one worried me as it lasted a week instead of the usual 3-5 days.Does this sound like a miscarriage or just a wierd heavy period?plus if it was a miscarriage what happens next? do i have to go to a doctor or just leave it? I would appreciate your advice.Thanks x
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2008): I have just been Googling to find the answer to exactly the same problem. I think I may have had a miscarriage too as started with pink discharge on the day I expect my period then this has five days later resulted in a heavy and painful period. I did a pg test when two days late and this was negative. It would have been an instant miscarriage though and the fertilised egg rejeted pretty much as soon as it was implanted.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks Annalisa. I am going to a clinic tonight so i will explain things to them.
I am in a very steady serious relationship. Between ourselves we are engaged (just saving for a ring before we tell anyone) we plan on waiting a good few years before we marry though.
I'm not worried about bringing a baby, its just in moving away so in my current situation it's not such a good idea to become pregnant as moving is stressful enough plus the stress im already having being the reasons im moving. Once me and my fiancee are settled in another city witha steady income, after a few years we plan to have a baby.
Thankyou for your advise it is apprieciated =]
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