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writes:My ex gf and I of 3.5 years broke up recently. She broke up with me and met someone which caused our breakup to actually happen. She left me for someone else. What does it mean when I find out that she is taking this guy to all the places that she and I used to go together?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2011): OMG. Get over her already. You keep obsessing about this woman from your other post. What you want is for her to come begging for ur forgiveness and after you make her feel the regret and have her kiss ur ass you,ll take her back and live happily ever after. THAT's NOT GOING TO HAPPEN. Don,t want to sound insensitive but you really need to move on. Maybe even see a professional. This awful woman deceived you. She wants you to believe that she married this English chap so he can live in America. Come on, when was England considered a third world nation with all these illegals clamoring onto boats to reach the promised land? I'm sorry if I sound insensitive. Trust me I have. Been burnt in life like you. you will never meet your soul mate if you keep thinking and analyzing this woman,s every move. You deserve better than that. She obviously wasn't the woman you thought she was, your best friend and brutally honest. Look at what she Sid to you. Even if you were working your ass off she knew things would change and get better for you in your company. You said now you have time to devote your time to somebody. Well go and do that, start a family enjoy life!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2011): i'm sorry ,but to be frank this girl is not worth a try anymore.she is completely over you.and she takes him to those places because she has absolutely no attachment or sentiments.when she went with you to those places she enjoyed the ambiance not that she's there WITH YOU .it seems like you don't matter to her anymore and memories with you don't make her nostalgic .
it's exactly the other way round than what you thought.if i had to take my bf to where i visited with my ex i wouldn't mind at all cos i don't miss the ex.but when i was single i couldn't bear the sight of things which reminded me of him cos it used to make me miss him and bring tears.
so move on
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (11 December 2011):
 It means she enjoys those places and wants to share that with someone else. You might have made an impression on her, but that is not the same as actually missing you.
It's probably not what you wanted to hear, but I really wouldn't read more into this than there is.
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