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writes: What do you make of this?He is one of my bosses but we seem to have had a weird personal rapport from the start. We have never had a date or anything but I often feel he is on the brink of asking me, just looking and lingering and then says off you go as if he wants to remove the temptation. He is divorced and still not over the relationship. In fact this is what has made us get a bit closer, as he confides things with me and I feel he trusts me.I am puzzled because I really like this man and wonder if I am just convincing myself that he fancies me when there may be nothing more in it. He has suggested places I may like to visit, asked me what music I like, what food I eat, I catch him looking at me sometimes.This is not a school time crush as I am nearly 60 but relatively inexperienced in this sort of thing and don't want to make a fool of myself. My marriage ended some time ago and that was my only relationship. I would like to know the impossible, why he may be acting like this with me. To say he is one of my bosses, when no one is around I find we are so comfortable in each others space that I find it hard to leave. Work is full of interuptions so the choice is always taken out of our hands. Sometimes I think it shows to others around us, or am I imagining their 2nd glances?Who knows?
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reader, bridget +, writes (29 March 2006):
 Hey there pet..
I think that you are just lack confidence in these situations therefore this is why you are finding it hard to work it out and have happiness with this man..
It doesnt matter if he is one of your bosses, Everyone is thier own person and whether he is a boss or not, he is still an individual with a job...
My advice to you would be to just carry on in the friendly basis to see what happens, Maybe he just wants someone to confide in as you mentioned he is divorced and still not over the marriage (this takes time)..
I suggest that you just be friendly towards him he maybe intersted in you in that level but maybe torn between his lost feelings for the divorce...
I hope it all works out for you
Jacqueline
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