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26-29,
anonymous
writes: So me and this girl dated for a couple years, and one day we decided to come up with a nick name for each other so i named her Jayce and she named me Hope. --long reason why i got that name. Anyway shes now my ex she been my ex for 2 years, and i guess im upset because shes with this girl and her gf is now calling her Jaycee and i dont know it just makes me sad/upset cause thats the name me and her picked out when we were together and to have some other girl calling her it's irriating .
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2012): Its the things that we face up to during a break up that we eventually come to terms with, and no longer hold hurtful memories for us when its all said and done. But its the little things that seem insignificant at the time that we overlook and push to the back of our minds and simply forget about, that can eventually come back to haunt us. A bit like a problem, if you just push it to the back of your mind and don't deal with it at the time, it will always be there and eventually it will pop up again and still need solving.
I know exactly where you're coming from. I still remember things from past relationships to this day, and although I'm 99.9% over the past, these things still bring back hurtful memories because I'd forgotten about them for so long.
So no, its not a silly thing to be upset about hun.
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