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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have met this guy who says he likes me, I really like him however meeting up is always a problem as he arranges to come over and then never shows up. He tells me he likes me but rarely texts me in the day just at night. One minute he tells me to get on with my life as I can do better than him then the next minute he tells me he can't stop thinking about me. Recently he has been pranking my phone but when I call back he doesn't answer. Does this bloke have a commitment problem or is he just not interested???
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reader, Mz Honey  +, writes (7 July 2007):
 It sound's like to me that if he only call you at nite and never texts you when the sun is up and make plans with you and then don't show up to me this man is married or have agirlfriend who he lives with...Men/women who only contact you at nite never answer the phone or it's off break plans several times a week almostalways has someone or he's just not in to you. He's tellingyou up front to move on because he know you are not what he really want's to settle down with.And the prank call maybe from his girlfriend/wife.Be carful you deserve A MAN whocares about you and want's to be with only you.You are giving him a reason to treat you bad everytime you go running back to him when you answer the call or let him come over after he has told you to move on you are telling him you don't care how he treating you that you are not goodenough for love and respect.Teach him a lesson show him you are better then that move on with your life raise your standard regain your self esteem back up let your hair down and go out and meet you some new friends have a cold glass of wine (or a shot of the top shelf) dance to much laugh to much and forget this jerk. He's not good enough for your thoughts put your love for him in a bag and threw it the deepest hole you can dig up and do exactly what he said move on to something bigger and better and trust me you will love the new you. My mother in law use to tell me when you allow man treat you bad you are blocking your blessing. And she was right I left her son and god bless me with a very good man. wehave been together for 9 beautiful years and now we have a very sweet and loving son I am totally happy I am truly bless.Believe in god he's the best man you can ever sleep with every nite he will never treat you like street booty that's what that guy is doing to you treating like a door mat. Let that dog go play in someone else backyard and pee on her tree not your you are better then that you have feeling to. Save them for a good man and not the little boy he is..Mz honey
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (7 July 2007):
 He certainly is playing you along here isn't he. If you want to find out his true intentions then back away from him and let him chase you. If he really wants to be with you he'll stop messing you around. He can't keep not turning up and spoiling your plans.
Talking to him might help him see what he's doing to hurt and confuse you.
xxxxxx
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reader, flower girl +, writes (7 July 2007):
 Now the only way to find out if he really likes you is to ignore him if he prank calls you don't phone him.
If he wants to be with you he will chase you.
It sounds very much like insecurities, when someone says something like 'get on with your life you could do better than me'.
So just do that try and get on with your life if he likes you that will shock him and make him see what he is losing.
Take care.xx.
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