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writes:I am 27years old and the love of my life d one I wanted to marry is 37years old by age.we both love each other so dearly and he is a man every woman would wanted as a husband because he has d attribute he is loving,caring,calm,hard work and lastly Godfearing.Although my dad is late but my mum and siblings I introduced him to saw him as a loving,caring and responsible but they keep on complaining that he is too old for me am confused because I feeling am losing the love of my life already. Reply to this Question
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reader, femmenoir  +, writes (2 November 2017):
 It's not a huge age gap, because you're in your 20s.
If you love each other then so be it. Marry him.
It's the two of you who must live together and if you know he's the right man for you, then who really cares what others think and say.
Remember, people will ALWAYS TALK AND GOSSIP, NO MATTER WHAT!
You just live your life and do what's best for you and he.
Be strong, be confident, be happy and stop worrying.
All the best.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (13 October 2017):
 Why would you lose the love of your life, - just because your mom and siblings do not like his age ?? If that's the only fault they can find in him... oh come on, I understand being a good daughter and sister, and also taking on board the opinion of people who love you- but that's ridicolous. If he is really so loving caring good etc. as you say, would you really let him go because your family says he's not the right age ??
Anyway- yes, 10 years is a bit of an age gap, but not a huge one. If you were 17 and he 27, I'd tell you let him be, but 10 years later ,..not a big deal, you may very well be on the very same wavelength in emotional maturity, life experience etc.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (13 October 2017):
 It's not too much of an age gap. Go marry him :)
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 October 2017):
 No the age gap does not matter as you are both adults and therefore it is up to the both off you how you want to spend your life. I don't think ten years is to much when you are both old enough to know what use want. Don't listen to your family, am sure they are wanting what is best for you, but only you can decide who you want to marry.
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reader, holeymoley +, writes (12 October 2017):
 No, if you love him like you do why should it and others opinions bother you. Love, laugh and live
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reader, Garbo  +, writes (11 October 2017):
 As you get older the gap between you two will seem much less. So no, he is not too old
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reader, NORA B +, writes (11 October 2017):
You sound that you have met the love of your life.No he is Not too old for you.Have a wonderful life with him.In time your family will see how happy you both are,and all will be well.Only once in a lifetime does one experience what you are feeling right now.Best wishes.Nora B.
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reader, fortunistia +, writes (11 October 2017):
No dear age doesn't matter he's just ten years older than you..I intact loves when their is gap in a relationship. Their will be lots of respect ...if you love him and he loves you too den go for it.
After all you the one going to live with the guy not them. And when your marriage goes smoothly, they will be glad you didn't heed to their words.
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