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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I met this gentle loving person. However, when we got close I saw that his was way too big and wide. Now I do not know how to tell him that we cannot work out and best to part as I do not think I could take it, it is too big. Reply to this Question
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reader, UKchick +, writes (25 September 2012):
dont look and think "i cant". you never know, he might be perfect for you and give you many orgasms. just remember to go slow and use lots of lube.
i dont think there is such a thing as too big. youve just gotta try it and see whats best for you. i remember ive had sex with 2 guys and they had the same size penis. one hurt quite a bit and i got no pleasure and i thought he was too big. but when i had sex with the other guy, it was one of the best nights of my life.
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reader, rescuer01  +, writes (25 September 2012):
I am a well endowed guy and what has worked for the women I have been with was that they have taken control most of the time when it came to penatration,But first of all,you just got to make sure you are wet as much as you need it to be and then it will go in without any problem.I think where most women are scared and worried about with a guy who is really big,is how deep he thrust it into them.I know that's what the women worries was about I have been with.Like the others said,Why don't you give it a try first to see if it will work for you.I bet once you give it a try and you 2 do it right,you will see that it wasn't bad as you thought it would be.At least give it a try before truning him down.If you do decide to give it try,Good luck and Hope things turn out well.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (24 September 2012):
 Slow down.. And try it out.. if he indeed IS too big then decide.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (24 September 2012):
 Shouldn't you give it a try before writing him off? I've known a lot of guys who were HUGE but still managed to be quite tender and all-round adorable.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2012): All things are possible with effort honey.:) we were all made to experience the unexpected at one time in our life don't knock what you never had. this guy I was dating was nice in height and his shoes size was an 8when we went to bed he was a ten with tender loving care.:)
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reader, fishdish +, writes (24 September 2012):
 Maybe you're jumping the gun and try first before you decide it won't work. Lady parts that have to be flexible enough to let out babies will surely let in a large penis.
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