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male
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41-50,
*hristos
writes:i broke up with her about 20 days before.she said that she lost attraction to me.i found out that she was asking my friends about me and that she thinks that sometime we will be together again.she also asked my sister three times if there is a girl that i had sex with during this period. so without telling her what my friends and sister had told me i called her 2 days before. we went out ,had fan, we kissed and i slept in her place having the best sex of our relationship.i told her that i would like to keep in touch and show her that i realize what made her lose her attraction to me and she said that she didn't know where this situation will take us.was it a sex for mercy or i have to continue trying to reach her even if she doesn't contact me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): Icare is probably right. She could have been made confused listening to others about you, and some of the reports may not have been good. It could have been sympathy sex, or she just needed it for herself. Without open and hnest communication, you may never know. If I were you, and especially if you have felt hurt by all of this, I'd back off and move on. If she doesn't reveal her feelings, intentions, then she should be under a microscope as to whether or not she is playing games. You need to protect yourself so that your not emotionally drained and hurt.
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reader, I care  +, writes (4 April 2008):
 as an outsider to me she sounds like she likes to play mind games. You don't need that if you have feelings for her cuz your going to get hurt no dought about it. If I were you I would move on There is woman out there looking for a guy that will care and not play mind games.
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