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writes:I have being dating a girl for about two years now and I love her very much. before we started dating she had a boyfriend but I loved this girl because she is so jovial,sweet voice and easy to go along with and so respectful. so I started getting acquainted with her like having chats with her and cracking jokes with her and she laughs a lot when I crack jokes. even before I confessed my love for her she never denied going out with me and we took snapshots together. the day I officially confessed my love for her it was as if she expected it because she kind of smiled and denied at first and I understood its because of a guy she was dating. I kind of still remained friendly to her but she later on came to me and ask me if I'll be jealous if a guy calls her.my response was yes, and she immediately adhered to me. a day arrived when she came back and told me she broke up with her guy that she wants me and she asked me if I really loved her,I replied yes. since then we started sharing her stories with me. telling me of any guy who befriends her even my cousins. she confesses to me she loves me so much. one of her friend came to me and ask me what I did to her friend for her to love me so much. that her friend has never succumbed to a guy the way she does to me. that her relationship with any guy doesn't last long for we are now getting to two years now. her friends are telling me she is loves me so much. the most surprising thing is we have never had sex but we have kissed so passionately but we haven't had sex. I travelled out to school so distant from where she is and I do call her to know her welfare and she always tell me not to worry that she'll always love me. she even went on to tell me that her ex is still pestering her that its a must she must marry him but she has being ignoring him ever since telling him she has someone else but her ex still persist and I just told her to be strong and stand firm for what for what her heart tells her.My younger brother ask her if she truly loves me she said yes that her love for me is more than the one I have for her. the problem is that she doesn't like opening her sex life to me. I once asked if she had had sex before she ignores the question and promises to tell me on a later day. she use to tell me she wants to be with me and sometimes sends me sexy love text. she shy so much away from the issue of sex and I love her so much and want to have sex with her because she kisses so well. please help me dear friends and agony aunts I really do love her and the desire to have sex with her. I want you all to help me out if this girl truly loves me and can agree to have sex with me. give me incentives on how to approach her about it.I really love her and want to know if she really loves me enough to the sexual level. thanks for understanding and look forward for your candid advice and ideas.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (18 October 2014):
 I meant keep it under control until she feels secure that everything is in place.
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (18 October 2014):
You need to find out if she wants to wait until marriage. Maybe that's the reason why her ex told her they must get married and he said later then she broke up with him. It seems you have contact with her brother and he approves of the relationship. Now you might have to meet each other's parents as a relationship is seldomly just you two. A woman can love a man to the sexual level but keep it under control only when everything is in place: Finance, family approval, and living situation. Not so much in Canada. People here do whatever they want and don't care.
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