A
female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Okay so, a bout 2 weeks ago there was a girl who randomly came up to me and asked me if I was actually a lesbian or if it was just a rumor. I told her I was and she said something like "thats cool and don't worry about the people making fun of you becuz you can be anything you want"Then a couple days later she asked me out on myspace and at first I didn't believe it was actually her. But then on Monday she came up to me. So anyways I said yes. But I didn't really think she was being serious about this. I got on my friends myspace because he gave me his pass and then I asked her if she really liked me (She didn't know it was actually me ofcourse) and she said "don't tell her this but I'm getting paid to do this" and then i messeged her back and said that she got caught. Then she messged me back and said "I knew it was you so I said that" (does that make any sense) she said she was scared or something. Then I asked my friend if she said anything about me and he said that he was given money to give to that one girl for going out with me. BUT!Both of them are liars. They lie all the time. My guy friend has a crush on her and I think he might be lying about that because he doesn't actually want her liking me. And for once she might be telling the truth-but I'm not sure. So then I started a conversation with her again right after we had a fight and I complemented her. And after I did she asked me if I had a crush on her and I said yes-because I really do. So we are apparently "going out again". ANYWAYS- The problem is that she likes this other guy a lot and wants him back, but at the same time says she likes me...or so I think. I'm not sure if she actually likes me. I don't know who's telling the truth. I don't know what to do. SO-What do I do? How do I tell her how much I really like her?(Sorry this was sooo long)
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reader, anon642  +, writes (2 November 2008):
 Completely agree with Qcumbr1. It's all mind games and stressful. Although it sounds like this girl isn't sure what she wants, you really need to find out, but give it a rest for a few days and then ask.All the best :)
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