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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My wife has been acting in a suspicious manner lately. For instance, she immediately runs to her phone to get it (but not necessarily answer it) if it rings and I go over to see who it is (caller ID). I ask her "Don't you want to answer that?" and she will say "Not right now." I used to always look at her phone to see who the incoming call is (if I was near her phone) so that I could relay to her who called like: "Your phone is ringing. It's your mom." Now, she seems uncomfortable with me seeing who the incoming calls are from. I have no evidence that she is having an affair, but I sat her down and pretended that I had evidence. I told her that she was acting suspicious and that I had reasons to lose trust in her. I told her that I know a lot more than she thinks I do. What surprised me is that she didn't argue with me. She didn't say: "I don't know what you are talking about. You are crazy." or dismiss me in any way. She just sat there silently. When I had said my piece I left the house for a bit and we haven't brought it up since.Does her silence imply guilt or not necessarily? I think if I was unfairly accused I would defend myself and demand to see the evidence.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2011): She's up to something.
People in her shoes who aren't guilty would at least deny it strongly. Many would be angry that you accused them at all.
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