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*hiori
writes:she stares at me in the hallways today when she talked about the new policies i got mad at her. i knew she knew about it and when we took a test i know mentally she tryed to comfort me. plus, i put a little love note on her desk she knew it was me. she looked at me smiling. and i know for a fact that i am in love with her. no doubt about that i went through a lot of lessons to realize that. i can pick up people's emotions real quick. i have a strong feeling that she does love me. i am not mixing up my own feelings into this. i want to know if she loves me or not. and trust me she won't do anything to me like that. i know she is not like that. Reply to this Question
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reader, shiori +, writes (27 March 2011):
shiori is verified as being by the original poster of the questionnever mind about this question.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2011): I think you see what you want to see. Emotions do that. They cloud our judgement.This is why Cops are not allowed on a case that involves them emotionally. Because they cannot remain impartial.Same here. Your own feelings are leading you to see the world as you wish it to be. At your age, this is impossible to avoid, with hormone coursing through your veins like crazy, changing your body's very make up.But you cannot truly know love until your views are no longer clouded by puberty. By hormones.Once your body has matured and your hormones are now within control, then and only then can you trully discern love from lust. And even then it's a challenge.But whilst you are in school and your mind is tainted by its own hormonal nature... you will see the world, and people, as you wish to see them, and not perhaps as it trully is.Flynn 24
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2011): She may well be, judging purely from the signs you've mentioned. Although, she may see it as more of a 'mother & daughter' type relationship. It really depends, but if she does love you and you love her, ask yourself where things will go from there forward.
Make sure you still look at the bigger picture. You could end up in an awkward situation - people could think she took advantage of you. If it escalated into a sexual relationship, chances are she'd lose her job or get put in prison. The government would view it as assault, although I'm sure you already know this. On the other hand, you could be completely misinterpreting her behavior and end up making a fool of yourself; it's a difficult situation to judge from the outside, so please forgive me.
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