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writes:I'm a girl, go to an all girls school and I have a crush on one of my female friends. We've recently become closer and that's made me like her even more!I sincerely doubt she likes me too and maybe it's just wishful thinking...but it almost seems like she's giving hints! She touches my hand/hugs me a lot, and sometimes she does stuff like plays with her hair while she talks to me or looks away if I see her across the hall, and one time she came up to me and like shouted my name and gave me a hug and her friend was like "Ohh, so YOU'RE (my name)... She's absolutely gorgeous and I feel like I'm in love, despite my age. I'm only 15 so I won't brand myself gay/straight/bi - at least not yet - but I'm desperate to know if she likes me too! Any way that I can find out whether she does without her knowing that I like her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2008): I think a good way of kind of trying to find out is when you're hanging out some time, just you and her preferably, then just ask if she's ever liked a girl or ask what her views are on homosexuality. You can bring it in by saying something about someone you know who's gay (you don't necessaraily need to know someone, it's just an idea) and then get talking on that topic. If you're thinking of telling her that you like her, then you should go with your instincts, so while you're talking you'll know if it's the right moment. Also watch out for key body language with her. I think it's interesting that you say her friend said 'Ohhh so YOU'RE ..' that clearly shows that she has been talking about you quite a lot... but whether that's as a friend or maybe more I'm not sure. How is she when it's just the 2 of you?
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reader, SMS  +, writes (16 July 2008):
i dont mean to burst your bubble but me and my friends are like that with eachother and none of us fancy eachother because we're all too into boys i think your friend is just being friendly and showing a closeness to your friendship i wouldnt take it in the wrong way because you might be wrong and get yourself upset and loose a close friend . x
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